Of course we aren’t in your shoes, but can only imagine this must be an incredibly hard decision for you.
We are honored that you are considering us. We have wanted to start our own family for several years now and are excited to become parents. Our struggle with infertility led us to adoption, and now we have fully embraced that this is our path. We are hoping for an open adoption at whatever level you are comfortable. We don’t want any secrets for our child and want them to know where they come from and who their biological family is.
OUR STORY
We met on a dating app five years ago and although we have lived together for years, just recently married.
On our first date we talked for hours until the restaurant closed. Robin loved how many questions Gordon asked her and that he was genuinely interested in the answers. That was a refreshing change from most guys she had dated! Gordon not only found Robin so interesting, but even more beautiful. We share the same values of kindness to others, appreciating different cultures, a love of travel, music, food, and pets. We even have our own secret handshake!
“We look forward to embracing you as part of our extended family and navigating this journey together.”
OUR HOME AND FAMILIES
As a Multi-racial family, we love how diverse and inclusive the San Francisco Bay Area is.
Our small, safe community is a wonderful place to raise a child with many great schools, a diverse population, and plenty of outdoor activities. Robin is half Puerto Rican and was born and raised in San Francisco. Gordon moved her twenty years ago, after being raised in the Sacramento area.
We also live near a lagoon where there is boating and water sports. In June there is a local art and wine festival. Every year there are fireworks over the lagoon for the fourth of July, and a harvest festival in the fall. We also enjoy yummy food trucks during the summer months each week.
We really look forward to taking our child to the beautiful beaches where we can build sand castles and collect seashells. We are lucky that the weather is nice year round and we spend a lot of time outside enjoying the mild temperatures.
While both of us have lost our parents, they have left us with many beautiful lessons and memories.
Gordon was an only child to only children, so without a lot of family left, his friends stepped in and Robin’s family has fully embraced him as their own. From his mother Gordon learned perseverance, empathy, leadership, and the importance of curiosity. From his Dad, he learned the importance of commitment and being true to one’s word. Gordon’s happiest memories from childhood are the road trips they took and talks about how we will do that as a family too!
Robin was raised by a single mom who passed when she was a child. Her grandparents stepped in to raise her, along with her aunt (“Nan”) and uncle. We are so thankful to still have Nan, who make us laugh hysterically. She is so excited to be a “grandma!” Uncle Skip was the person who took Robin to visit colleges, taught her how to drive and dropped her off for her first week of college. Skip and Leah, who we love to visit in Florida, will be “Grandpa and Lola” and cannot wait!
FUN FACTS
About Gordon
Favorite vacation spot: New York City
Hobbies: Guitar playing, video games, reading non-fiction
Favorite sports team: San Francisco Giants season ticket holder
Favorite animal: Our dogs Momo & Riley
What I like to collect: VinyI records, I have also been collecting Star Wars action figures since the start of the pandemic for our child
Perfect day is: Getting up early, doing something active, having a nice breakfast with Robin and relaxing together
About Robin
Favorite vacation spot: Anywhere tropical, beachy and warm
Hobbies: Adult Lego sets, puzzles, playing piano, travel, reading
Dream job: Travel photographer
Favorite dessert: Strawberry shortcake or red velvet cake
Favorite place to take a child: The beach and Disneyland
Favorite animal: Dogs, dolphins, alpacas and monkeys
What I like to collect: Pins or a holiday ornament from each country I visit

























IN CLOSING
We want to thank you again for taking the time to learn about us.
We hope that something about us stood out to you or perhaps you connected to something we said. We will promise to love and care for your child with our entire hearts. We promise to listen to them, to make them feel heard, to let them know how very wanted and special they are to us.
We deeply appreciate and acknowledge you, and we will forever be grateful to you for giving us the incredible gift of adoption.
DESIGNED WITH ❤️ BY OUR CHOSEN CHILD